Thursday, 11 August 2016

Arrendene Open Space in pictures

Arrandene open space is one of my favourite walks in Mill Hill. Here are a few of my favourite pictures, taken on my mobile phone during the regular walks I take with my dogs.
Fine views of West London and Harrow


We call this the Spooky Tree!


All of this with a London Post Code!
All only 10 mins walk from the Adam and Eve and The Three Hammers, if you develop a thirst!


Monday, 8 August 2016

A thought for the week

Just remember, whatever you do in life, there is always a choice. Sometimes all options are unpalatable. Sometimes what seems like a good choice today, becomes a very poor choice tomorrow. Remember that the person you may choose to disrespect today, may well make a choice tomorrow based on that experience. To quote Lou Reed 'You're going to reap just what you sow'. So choose the seeds you plant today very carefully.

The world we leave our children is the world we are building. 

Sunday, 7 August 2016

Guest Blog - Why ALL Christians Need to be in Rev Steven Young

We're gonna do what we do every day. We're going to break bread. Yesterday the world reacted with horror at the senseless killing of another innocent man. 84 year old AbbĂ© Jacques Hamel had his throat slit as he said mass in a suburb of Rouen in Northern France by so called “ISIS soldiers”.
Just by being in church this Sunday you are making a stand. You are standing up with Christians throughout the world and saying “I will NOT be afraid.” When the forces of darkness want nothing more than for you to retreat in fear or retaliate with vengeance you are responding in precisely the way those forces of darkness hate most. You are responding with light. You are responding with love.
Because it is LOVE that we are celebrating in this place.
Whenever we gather to celebrate Mass, to offer the Holy Sacrifice of the altar, we are remembering the saving acts of Christ, who offered up His life that we might live. Christ died for us, showing us that the love of God had no limits, no bounds, and no conditions. The love of God is for everyone. There are NO exceptions. There is nothing you or I have done to ‘earn’ this love. There is nothing we can ever do to “deserve it”.
The love of God is there with you in each and every moment of your life… we do not need to “journey” to God, or to wait for Him to “come down” we just need to remove the blinkers from our eyes, all the sin and shame that blinds us to His presence with us at all times, and in all places.
There is nothing that is beyond the realms of His forgiveness.
The love of God does not wait for you to be perfected, or sorted, it is freely given. It is grace. It is gift. It is for YOU. And the love of God will continue to be lavishly, yes, even recklessly, out-poured, because God's love is there for us whether or not we choose to receive or acknowledge it.
This is what makes God’s love to precious, so precarious, so vulnerable. There is no quid pro quo. More love is given to us from God than we can ever be fully return.
Awareness of how deeply, how unconditionally we are loved should give us a new sense of courage, a new sense of boldness, a new freedom to love others as recklessly, limitlessly… and without exception as Christ loves us.
Because we stand at a watershed moment in our history. There are two ways we can travel in the wake of the violence and bloodshed that is happening right now in our world.
We can do what our oppressors want. We can label. We can hate. We can curse. Or we can bless. We can forgive. We can heal from wounds.
We have a clear calling in our discipleship.
Do we dare, in all that we say, and do, and think, to point to the love of Christ on the cross?
I dare you. I dare me.
Do we have the courage to keep ON loving when the world is rough? To keep on loving when the world is tough? To make room for Christ to leap and sing in all we do? To keep travelling along with the God who called us and saved us and redeemed us even before we were born.
The journey of real discipleship is not going to be an easy road – but it’s a road none of us will ever regret taking.
A couple of months ago I was appointed as the Anglican Chaplain of North London Hospice. I remember the first time I visited. I was concerned that in a place where people go to die, it would feel empty and barren and hopeless. Instead what I encountered when I stepped through those doors for the first time was quite the opposite. It was as though every molecule in the air was filled to its fullest. As if the presence of God in that place was so strong, so obvious, that even the air around me was calling out His holy name. I cannot really describe it any other way than one of those places where the veil between earth and heaven is really, really thin.
People are dying, they are often in pain or discomfort. Their families are grieving. Trying to make sense of what is happening to their loved one. There is despair. There is anguish. There is regret. And there is God. So clearly and so abundantly in the midst of it all.
In those weeks before death, people often want to talk about how they lived their life. And you know, so far, not one person has mentioned how they wished they earned more money. Not once has anyone said they wished they spent more time at work. Not once has anyone said they wished they spent more time getting back at the person who wronged them. Instead what people talk about is the opportunities they missed to reach out to a loved one. The relationships that failed because of lack of forgiveness, or resentment or fear. The missed opportunities to make a difference. To love. To heal. To forgive.
Because when life is short, people seem to get a real perspective on what is actually important. All that can so often clamor and fill our lives of privilege, the busyness, the pursuit of perfection, wellness, affluence, the desire for this or that thing we convince ourselves we “need” goes out the window and what becomes of vital importance, of infinite value, is TIME. The time we have left to repent. The time we have left to heal broken relationships. The time we have left to love.
Because none of us know what will happen tomorrow. The time we have now. The present moment. This is only guarantee. And yes. It IS a present. Yes. It is a gift. This sacrament of the present moment is the only moment that matters because in this moment Christ is reaching out to you. He is making His love known. He is calling you to respond.
This Sunday, you and I respond by gathering around the altar. By breaking bread, by sharing wine, by remembering and giving thanks for the saving acts of Christ. And by being sent out to make this love of God known in all the world through courageous, self-giving acts of kindness and compassion. Fashioning our lives not on what we will but on what God wills. This is the life of discipleship to which you and I are called in our baptism. And I can assure you of two things. One. This life won’t necessarily be easy. But Two. When we have the courage to dare to live in accordance with God’s will for our lives – we will never regret it. God gives us the grace to die and rise with Christ each day and live our lives in accordance with His will. Because at the end of lives, when we look back, we will know that our lives were well spent. And however much of our lives have already past, there is ALWAYS time, there is always room for repentance, that is the wonder of God's grace, the possibility of making a fresh start is here for us even now, and each of us, in one way or another, need to take it.
I want to finish by sharing with you a poem that was read at a funeral I officiated at this week. It’s called “The Dash.”
I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning…to the end.
He noted that first came the date of birth
and spoke the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that they spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved them
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own,
the cars…the house…the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So, think about this long and hard.
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read,
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent YOUR dash?

Saturday, 6 August 2016

The first weekend of every month, there is a collection for Colindale Foodbank in Mill Hill. The Sacred Heart RC Church on the Broadway is the designated collection point. You can just drop a bag of provisions into the narthex (lobby area by doors) or leave it at the Presbertery. The church is the Mill Hill collection point. For many local families, this is a vital contribution to the household.Find out more about the foodbank - http://colindale.foodbank.org.uk/ - which has done fantastic work distributing food to the most needy people in Barnet. This has been supported by people all across the Borough.
Foodbank dates
Next foodbank dates August 6th & 7th and September 3rd and 4th.
The following items are needed. 
UHT Milk or powdered
Fruit Juice (long life carton)
Soup
Sponge Pudding (tinned)
Tomatoes (tinned)
Cereals
Rice pudding (tinned)
Instant Mash potatoes
Tinned meat and fish
Tinned Vegetables
Tinned fruit
Jam
Biscuits or snack bars
There is also a need for toiletries and babies nappies size 3, 4 and 5
Currently they do not need pasta or teabags.


It is a sad fact of life that we need such collections in 2016. Please pop a few provisions in a bag and help a few local families. The provisions are collected and dropped off on a Monday morning and distributed. If you know of any other collection points in the Borough, please post a comment. 

Friday, 5 August 2016

The Friday Joke 05/08/2016


Little Johnny asks the teacher, “Mrs Roberts, can I be punished for something I haven’t done?”
Mrs Roberts is shocked, “Of course not, Johnny, that would be very unfair!”
Little Johnny is relieved, “OK Mrs Roberts, sorry, I haven’t done my homework.”


Have a great weekend

Thursday, 4 August 2016

Russell Square stabbings - Proving the case for gun control

We awake to the news of a mass stabbing in Russell Square last night. As I write this, the details are stil unknown with terrorism and mental health being mentioned. One thing which the terrible incident does demonstrate is the benefit of the UK's strong system of gun controls. Whilst it is tragic that one person has died and six were injured, think how much worse the carnage would have been had the perpetrator been armed with semi automatic guns. Whilst we are at present not clear exactly what triggered the shootings, if you go out with a knife and then stab a number of people, it has to be surmised that you had put  a degree of preparation into your actions. As such the lack of readily available guns is clearly a major reason for us not waking up to a far worse tragedy. Whatever lessons we learn from such incidents, lets hope we see the value of our current regime of gun control.

Wednesday, 3 August 2016

How much has #Brexit cost you so far?

Just a quick question. Have you worked out how much #Brexit has cost you so far?

If you've been on holiday, the drop in the £ will have increased your costs by approx 10%. If you have filled up your car, petrol prices have risen as Oil is priced in dollars. I've also noticed that imported food prices have started to rise.

I hope all #Brexiteers think this is a price worth paying. It is shocking how dishonest papers such as The Mail and The Express have been, claiming that pre referendum statistics prove Brexit is a good thing and that companies making long planned investments have in some cases carried on with the schemes.

It is far too early to really understand what will happen, especially as we are still in the dark as to the new settlement, but as far as the average person is concerned, if you eat, buy petrol or holiday abroad, you are already hundreds of pounds out of pocket.

Tuesday, 2 August 2016

The delectable Mrs Trump

There are dozens of reasons I believe Donald Trump would be a lousy President of the United States of America. The fact that there are tutti laying pictures of his wife doing the rounds is not one of them.

I am constantly amazed at the puritanical streak some of us display when faced with a bit of flesh. What really is so shocking about seeing a picture of a woman as God made her (perhaps in Ms Trumps case with a little help from a plastic surgeon). 

A few years ago there was a craze for ladies of the Women's Institute and the like to make money for charities by publishing nude calendars, often with strategically placed pots of jam. Some were branch secretaries of local Conservative parties etc. Most of us found it jolly good fun.

I honestly thought this demonstrated that maybe we were growing up. But it seems the mock outrage at Ms Trump has shown that our inner prude is desperately trying to get out. 

Getting at Trump through his wife is nasty and demeans us. Trump is not the first rich and powerful man to use his assets to land a pretty woman. He's never made any bones about having a pretty juvenile attitude to his personal life. To me he seems a bit emotionally immature. I doubt that will bother too many men casting their votes, although women may take a different view.

It seems to me that what scares many about Trump is that he holds a mirror up to all of us and we don't like what we see. Can any man who enjoys a furtive glance at porn, really condemn Trump. How many women use their assets to enhance their earnings/lifestyle? The Trumps just do it in a bigger and brasher way.

We get the politicians we deserve and perhaps the most disturbing thing of all is that perhaps we deserve Donald Trump and his delectable wife.

Monday, 1 August 2016

Digital Barnet - Are you interested

The Barnet Eye, in association with The Chandos Arms, are organising a Digital Barnet event, where local residents, businesses and charities can come along and find out what is going on in the online space in Barnet. 

We've spoken to Barnet libraries about their ground breaking program of Digital awareness classes, in association with Google. The North London Branch of the Federation of Small Business will be helping us promote the event.

We are currently looking for members for a panel for a Q&A session. The event will be free entry on a Tuesday evening in September TBA when we have dates when everyone is available.

If you are involved in digital Barnet and want to get involved, please get in touch.

We are aiming to bring people together to show how you can benefit from digital Barnet. So if you are interested in getting involved, drop us an email using the link at the side of the page and watch this space!