Tuesday, 9 February 2021

1957 vs 2021 - A guest blog by Richard Wilkinson

Have you ever considered how much life has changed over the last 60 odd years? I thought it might be fun to list how things have changed. I hope you enjoy this. If you don't know what the item in the first column is, ask your great grandma. It is amusing to think that none of the 2021 list would have meant anything

1957. The Milkman                           2021. Ocado

1957. Warm Bitter in the pub            2021. Chilled wine at home

1957. A Telegram                             2021. Whatsapp

1957. Encyclopedia                           2021. Alexa

1957. 78 rpm record                         2021. Spotify

1957. Mug of Tea                              2021. Skinny Latte

1957. Lighting the fire                         2021. Smart House

1957. The Chippy                               2021. Deliveroo

1957. Brylcream                                 2021. Texturizing hair putty

1957. Steam Trains to work                2021. Work from home

1957. Polio Jab                                   2021. Covid vaccine

1957. Church fair                                2021. Go fund me page

1957. The Radio                                 2021. Netflix

1957. Germs                                       2021. Mutant variant virus

1957. The local dancehall                    2021. Tinder (other services are available)

1957. Smog                                        2021. Global warming

1957. Car Key                                   2021. Fob

1957. Woolworths                              2021. Amazon

1957. Bacon and Eggs                         2021  Kale shake

1957. Malnutrition                                2021. Diabetes

1957. PE                                              2021. Gym class

1957. Movie Star                                  2021. Celebrity

1957. Fun fair                                        2021. Theme park

1957. Arthur Askey                               2021. Alan Carr

1957. Hose pipe and domestos              2021. Mobile dog groomer

1957. Life and soul of the party               2021. Customer of the Priory

1957. Meeting mates in the pub               2020. Zoom call with friends

1957  Showing off                                   2021. Posting selfies

1957. Exaggerating                                  2021. Bigging it up 

1957. Conman                                         2021. Internet scammer

1957. Dirty old man in the park                2021. Internet groomer

Do you have any for the collection?   

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Richard Wilkinson is a Mill Hill Resident. Richard runs the Mill Hill directory, a completely free guide to life in Mill Hill for both uses and businesses, a useful bookmark, if you need to get in touch with local traders, delivery services or need transport information https://millhillbroadway.org/services.php

Guest blogs are always welcome at the Barnet Eye                                   

Monday, 8 February 2021

Environment Monday - Go semi-vegan one day a week to save the World!

The planet has a problem. We are consuming more than the planet can sustain. There are many aspects of this that we have discussed in this column. When I started writing this, I wanted to explore solutions, not problems. In a perfect world, once people recognised there might be a problem, they would instantly change all of their behaviorus and the problem would go away. In the real world it is far more complex. From a sustainability perspective, it would be a good thing, if we planned what we eat with how the food affects the environment in mind. 

My view is that us meat eaters should move to a diet with less meat, but of a better quality. Free range meat, farmed organically is something we should always be considering. I generally eat meat 2-3 days a week. When I do it is good quality, purchased from our local butcher. I eat fish 1/2 days a week and a semi vegan diet the rest of the time.

The trouble for many is that they may want to change, but wouldn't even know where to start. There are a few questions I get asked. Here is my take on these

 1) What do you mean by 'semi vegan'?

This is basically one of practicality. Since I was diagnosed with cancer, I largely avoid dairy products. Once in a while I will have a bit of cheese. Before my diagnosis, I would allow myself certain things, such as milk in tea on my 'vegan' days. There were two reasons, the first is that I did not like the taste of any of the alternatives. The second is that I didn't believe the occasional small amount of things like butter and eggs in recipies, where there was no good alternative in the house, was a fair and reasonable compromise. Especially when our children were younger, it was hard to convince them to eat completely vegan pasta dishes etc without a bit of parmesan on top. I came to the conclusion that it wasn't the odd bit of parmesan or milk in tea that are making our eating habits unsustainable. This 'icing on the cake' often make dishes far more appealing and as people shift, eventually better alternatives will become available, once manufacturers see a market. I think we should look at the bigger picture here. I had a dish with vegan cheese last week and it was very good. I genuinely wouldn't have known, but it takes time to shift to this.

2) If you think meat is wrong, how can you ever eat it? 

The answer to this is that I don't think eating meat is wrong. I do get people who do. I do however have an issue with intensive farming methods. I believe these to be bad for us. Overuse of anti biotics in meat production leads to resistant diseases. I happen to think battery farming is inhuman. I do my very best to avoid the products produced in this way. I believe that if all of the Western meat eaters ate good quality meat 2-3 times a week, they would be healthier and the planet would benefit enormously and the problems of sustainability would be largely addressed. The fact so many eat poorly farmed meat every day is the issue.

3. How can beans from Kenya be less environmentally damaging than beef from down the road? I tend to agree with this sentiment, if the beef is free range. Of course, especially in winter, many farm animals are fed on all manner of feeds that are not farmed sustainably, but again, if we nudge farmers away from this and say "listen, I will pay more for meat if it is farmed sustainably" I think it is a win/win. 

4. Doesn't the fishing industry also cause massive ecological damage? Some aspects of it do. This again is why I try and buy sustainably fished products. The UK is surrounded by waters teeming with fish. If these are fished responsibly, I see no reason why this should be an issue.

5. How can you be sure that meat and fish are produced responsibly? 

This is where the law, regulation and inspection comes in. The UK is good at these things. That doesn't mena bad things don't occasionally happen, but any seller cheating will see their reputation destroyed.

6. I would like to try going vegan one day a week, but what will I eat? 

I love my food. We have spent a long time building up an array of recipies.Most of the supermarkets have a whole range of excellent vegan products these days. I find that there are some excellent meat free sausages on the market that work well in many recipies.

 Here is what I am eating today

Breakfast. A bowl of porridge and fresh fruit

Lunch. Chick pea, tomato and mushroom curry, with Jasmine rice (prepared yesterday and warmed in the work microwave - I tend to prepare lunches in advance to bring in)

Dinner. Vegan Sausage, chilli and tomato spaghetti topped with vegan cheese.

 One of the things I've found is that whilst I am not overly keen on vegan sausages in a fry up (you always feel a bit like you are missing out), they go well in things like a Sausage Spagbol. With some nice fresh chillies and a good recipe, they are delicious. 

I genuinely don't think I am missing out. I tend to experiment with herbs and spices. Some smoked paprika in with the sausages is a real winner for me. By the time I get to Sunday, I do look forward to the Sunday roast, but I equally look forward to many of the other meals that don't have meat. I enjoy planning new recipies and planning different ways of cooking things. On Saturday, I made Tempura Shitake mushrooms, made with beer batter that were absolutely delicious.

7. Will I get enough vitamins and nutrients if I give the meat a miss? 

Without knowing what anyone is eating throughout the week, it is of course impossible to say, but if you were eating meat every single day and you stop for one day a week, it is highly likley that you will actually get a far better nutritional mix than you were before. I am not qualified to give medical or nutritional advice, so I would advise doing some homework. I saw a nutritionalist a few years ago who advised me that what I was eating was 'about right' with this sort of pattern. I do take two turmeric capsules and an 'over 50's vitamin suppliment' and I feel pretty good at the moment. There are many symptoms of dietry deficiencies/problems, flecks on finger nails, fatigue, eczema, etc. If you suffer from any of these it is worth a chat with your GP.

8. Where is the best place to find vegan recipies? 

Now this is a tricky one. I actually find many vegan recipie cites are not great for people 'giving it a try'. Once you have got into the mindset that a big lump of meat is not the meal and the rest of the plate is not just garnish it is a bit easier, but avowed carnivores just see a non meat meal as not a 'proper meal'. I would start with Italian or Indian recipies. Some such as the sausage spaghetti or a chicken (substitute) Jalfrazi work well with a meat substitute from the supermarket. Vegan pies, especially with mushroom selections are also pretty good. Sometimes I do things like getting the Naan and Onion Bhaji's from the local Indian restaurant and making the rice and the main course myself. Also making a big Mushroom pie and getting a bag of chips from the chippy works well. I love chips, but have never managed to get them to 'chippy' quality. 

9. What about if I want to eat out? 

My view is that if you are going out for a meal, have what you like. For most of us, it's a treat and if you start to think you own self imposed rules are making you not enjoy things, then they won't work. My wife doesn't eat meat, which makes it a bit easier (last night she had fish when we had Sirloin steak). If we eat out, I'll often have things like Liver and bacon, which I'd never cook at home. It actually makes it even more enjoyable. 

10. I think I am too Hedonistic to ever try vegan food.  

My brother L:aurie is a big classical studies scholar. He once told me that the Hedonists get a bad press and we don't really appreciate their philosophy. Whilst they believed in massive over indulgence, this was more one of enjoying massive parties. The rest of the time, they were saving up to pay for the parties. It was far more nuanced than we give them credit for. But aside from the classics lessons, I do find that having a more varied diet makes everything seem more interesting. 

 11. I have a sweet tooth, I would miss milk chocolate, cakes made with egg and custard tarts far too much to give up. 

This is why I recommend a semi-vegan approach. Just suppose that you really can't do without the piece of chocolate or the cream on the cake after your vegan main course, then have it. Regard it as a treat and that in the bigger picture you are moving in the right direction. As more people adapt, products will become available and if you really can't find one you like, don't beat yourself up. Do your best

If you are going to try going semi vegan, do your homework first. Read up on a few recipies that you fancy and make sure you get the ingredients in. I honestly think the way to do these things is to gradually shift ourselves. I first started my journey in 1984, when a friend sitting next to me persuaded me that modern farming methods were cruel. It took me a about five years to get tothe point where I could organise my fridge to have anything I wanted to eat. I ate a lot of curries (mostly Bhuna Prawn Masala's and Onion Bhajis) and a lot of Penne Arrabiata. It seemed every sandwich was cheese and every barbecue was a dry veggie sausage that tasted of cardboard. I well remember when someone gave me a 'Linda McCarntney' banger. It wasn't a meat sausage, but it was the first time I ate one that I wasn't completely disappointed and a couple on a Barbie in a bun weren't too bad. Things have come on a lot. I didn't eat meat for sixteen years and for much of that, the only pub option was a veggie lasagne or a cheese ploghmans.  As someone who loves food this was a difficult period, but I soon learned to check places out in advance if possible. I got into cuisines that meat wasn't so important in many dishes and got more adventurous. When I discovered the vegetarian Indian restaurants in Drummond St, this was amazing, although it was another matter getting carnivore friends to go.

In 2000, I was persuaded that if we supported the organic movement and ate locally produced, ethically farmed meat, it would help build a more sustainable option and would be a responsible way to go. These days it is far easier to get organic meat that is traceable and guaranateed sustainable, so I do think consumer power has a part to play in this. My position has evolved over the years. I would not go back to a full time non meat diet, but I respect those that do.

For all you radical vegans out there, who feel this is heresy. I'm not making a case for you to have a bacon sandwich, I am trying to open a few doors to people who might otherwise feel that all of this would be far too difficult for them. 







Sunday, 7 February 2021

The Tweets of the week in the London Borough of Barnet - 7th February 2021

Another week of nothing much happening in the London Borough of Barnet. But you wouldn't know it from the efforts of our esteemed local Tweeters!

1. Edgware has  a new Rabbi. We wish him all the very best in these trying times.


2. It seems that the Cullimore Pharmacy in Edgware has a very esteemed fan!


3. Can you help this Edgware Student out?


4. Someone is not too impressed with the new tower block in Edgware!


5. I do love the odd reminder of the lost Cricklewood of my youth


6. A Mill Hill mystery was solved!


7. If you are near Brent Reservoir, keep an eye out for these rather elegant Tufted Ducks


8. Finchley and Wingate are supporting their local food bank. So are we and we hope that you are too!


9. If you are a Mill Hill business and you want a free listing in the Mill Hill Residents Association directory, this is what you need to do. The association has a rich history and is a well established and respected local organisation


10. This will be great, new music video filmed in Mill Hill!


That's all folks!


Saturday, 6 February 2021

The Saturday list #295 - my top ten 1950's songs

 As we approach the 300th Saturday list, I thought I'd prepare a little treat for my readers. I'll be releasing a series of Spotify playlists with a selection of songs from my favourite era's and genres. 

We start at the beginning, with the 50's and rock and roll. I hope you enjoy this playlist


Here are a few notes about each song.

1. We start with Bill Haley and The Comets. Considered by many as the start of the rock and roll era. It seems amazing to think that this song inspired Teddy boys to smash up cinemas in England!

2. We don't really hear enough of Gene Vincent. Everything about this number is perfect rock and roll. I got into Gene Vincent when Ian Dury released Sweet Gene Vincent. If it's good enough for Ian Dury, it's certainly good enough for me. 

3. I always have a problem selecting an Elvis tune and usually choose Hound Dog from his 50's era. It is a song actually written to be sung by a woman about a good for nothing man. It says everything about Presley that he could completely own it. One of my new years resolutions was to listen to more Elvis.

4. As with many rock and roll songs, I was introduced to it by punk! Knox, from the Vibrators used to cover this when he was trying to launch a solo career. I thought it was such a good song that I bought the album it was originally on by Buddy Holly. I bought Knox a pint next time I saw him for opening my eyes.

5. I always took this as an invocation for radio stations to play Rock and Roll rather than classical music, which was just fine by me. We are lucky these days, there are enough stations to play all genre's. I was very tempted to pick Johnny B. Goode by Chuck Berry, as it set me on the road as a guitarist, but I think this is a better song!

6. Johnny Cash is such an important artist. It took me a while to really get him. Many years ago Boz Boorer of the Polecats informed me my Rock and Roll education was incomplete without a Johnny Cash record.  I bought Folsom Jail blues, but didn't really get it on first listen. It sat there for a few years until a friend saw it and asked me to play it. It was a revelation. I think this track is almost perfect in its simplicity.

7. Wanda Jackson is almost completely forgotten. She shouldn't be. I love this track. Picked up a copy in a bargain bin and probably played it 30 times in a row when I got it home. Just a little bonkers.

8. Link Wray is credited by many as inventing the sound we identify as a 50's echo guitar sound. This song was banned for inspiring violence, a rumble being slang for a gang fight. How times change. You will know this, even if you don't know it!

9. Tutti Frutti by Little Richard is a glorious piece of rock and roll silliness. Little Richard is one of the greats that I bitterly regret not seeing. I sort of felt he wasn't 'cool enough' when I was a teenager. What a fool I was. This is a great song to play at the end of the night when DJ'ing a 50's night. 

10. I had to pick a British track. People always think that The Shadows and Apache was the sound of British rock and roll in the 1950's, but it was actually released in June 1960. The British star was skiffle king Lonnie Donegan. Sadly, he's best remembered for 'My old man's a dustman' which is a comedy track. There was so much more to him. Gamblin man is probably my favourite of his hits, although if you ask me tomorrow I might say Rock Island line. I must say that the idea of listening to this, drinking whisky and playing three card brag with my Dad and my Brother is a dream that sadly I will never be able to do again in this life.

Have a great weekend. 

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Friday, 5 February 2021

Suicide and young people - The unimaginable grief

Sometimes, I feel a great responsibility writing this blog. Some things need to be said, but how to say them is a burden. By a bizarre set of circumstances, I spoke to three different close friends who happen to be members of a club that no one wants to join. All three have lost children. Each was a terrible loss that will cast a shadow from which I am not sure one can ever truly emerge. I had arranged a recording session at the studio to lay down some new tracks last night. On the way, I bumped into John, who was picking up a curry at the Mill Hill Tandoori. I've not seen him since last year. His son James passed away in a terrible boating accident  in New Zealand in 2015, in which James heroically rescued a drowning friend, but was unable to save himelf. John was the first friend I knew who had suffered this sense of loss. Our friendship group gathered around the family as best we could, offering what support we could. We felt helpless, I could not imagine that anything good could come out of such a terrible event. At first, no one really knew what to do or say. However, there was one good thing which did emerge. James's friends rallied around the family, setting an example for us  older people. They showed us just how important it is to support your friends. The efforts they went to making us realise James had been loved was a huge help for all. It was an education for me and many of our friends. Due to the lockdown rules, I could only really nod at John and exchange pleasantries, but it was great to see him. 

The lessons of what James and his friends taught us sadly was reprised this time last year, when another good friend, Chris lost his daughter to suicide. This week, the coroner finally released their report. This week the family received the coroners verdict. This has shocked and saddened them. One of the worst aspects of lockdown is that we've been unable to visit Chris and Elaine and give any more support than the odd phone call. Reading the report, I arranged to speak to Chris tonight (Friday). He  called me last night, just as we were about to start recording, getting mixed up which day of the week it was. When Chris realised, he said he'd call back today. Much as I would normally have made the time and chatted, I couldn't last night. You may think "What could be more important than chatting to a friend going to a difficult time". Well sadly, the answer was that it our drummer Graham's son took his own life in January and it was the first time I've seen him. In case you are wondering, the track is part of a professional project we are working on. Our studios are large and we can properly socially distance. Much of the work we do is for clips that are used in various productions. We'd put this off as long as possible, but Graham came down and was in fine fettle as a drummer. It always amazes me how musicians can forget the ills of the world when they play. 

Much as I'd thought the passing of James and Eleanor was awful, for Graham there was the added dimension of lockdown. He has not been able to socialise, get support or even drown his sorrows in the corner of a pub. Whilst you cannot compare grief in such circumstances, only being able to see one of my very best friends in a working environment was difficult beyond imagination. We did have a good (socially distanced) chat. The session was quite intense and productive and Graham said at the end that he was really pleased he had come down. Two hours concentrating on something away from real life problems is always a powerful force for the good. There are many aspects of what happened that are troubling and I may well come back to them after the coroners report has been released, if the family are comfortable with it being discussed. There are however three things that need discussing.

 The first is the unimaginable strain put on people in the situation Graham finds himself. I fully understand and support lockdown regulations, but I do think people in his position are in exceptional circumstances. I would love to ask him around for a drink and a chat at home, but this is forbidden. by the regulations. I am not a believer in adapting the rules to suit yourself. We stayed sober for the session. Graham has been very wary of drinking on his own, he works for Camden council and has to get up, drive and be functional. I do think that in such circumstances, some form of special dispensation should be available. Not for a massive shebang, but to visit another household for support. 

The second thing that this flagged up to me is the issue of Facebook Suicide groups. I do not want to prejudge the coronors report as to the role, if any, these played, but it was clear that he'd viewed sites containing information about killing yourself. I cannot believe that such things are allowed to exist. It is clear that there are administrators and they clearly are not killing themselves. I really cannot believe that a responsible social media platform allows anything that promotes self harm. I do not know too much about this, I was horrified to learn that such things are permitted on easily accessible platforms. There are many things on social media that I don't like, but these are clearly dedicated to promotion of self harm. I've no idea of the scale of the problem, but it should not be a problem. 

The third thing that struck me happened after Graham left. As I went to return the keys to reception, the young lady we had on reception asked how the session had gone. I explained that it had gone well, but mentioned Graham's son. Graham is well known at the studio, being an original partner when we first started developing the business and having been a customer and studio user ever since. She looked dejected. She said "what is going on", explaining that a friend of hers locally had taken his life recently.

Something is seriously wrong. To learn of three young people so close to us who have taken their own lives in less than a year is terrible. I am not sure what we can do, where we can start, how we can persuade young people that there is a better way.  There are many things I could say, but the sadness and grief caused by young suicides is horrific. It is beyond my comprehension to understand how someone can get to that position, but it seems our young people are getting to that place ever more regularly. I cannot imagine the grief it would cause me to lose a child. I cannot believe my friends are so stoic, I am sure I would be in pieces if such a thing ever happened. I hope to God my kids know how much I love and cherish them. I believe that lockdown is not good for anyones mental health, but for young people it is especially tough. Occasionally we hear talk of the government doing something, but clearly it isn't working. I have no suggestions, but there are cleverer people than me out there, who understand the subject. We, as a nation, need to allocate some serious resouces to this issue. Seeing great people at the edge, is something we need to address, we need to pull them back. Nowhere in the whole lockdown response has been anything to assist people with grief. But the one lasting lesson James Murphy's passing taught me and it is one I will try not to forget is that we can do something. We can talk to our friends and support them when they need it. So take a moment to think who might and do what needs to be done. I will be speaking to Chris later. Maybe this time, he may even support me just a little bit, as I seek to help Graham. 

Apologies if this blog seems a little more all over the place than normal. It has been a tough old week.

Thursday, 4 February 2021

Rog T's Cancer Blog - On world cancer day, could 2020 turn out to be the best year ever


 Social media is seeing all manner of posts about 2020 and how it is the worst year ever. I must admit that from a social activities standpoint it is hard to disagree. But we sometimes need to sift through the coals of a fire. If we are lucky, we might even find diamonds and gold. As someone who has lived with cancer now for nearly ten years (that I knew about), I have a slightly different perspective. As regular readers will know, I had an experimental HiFU treatment as part of a trial at UCH in 2016 for Prostate cancer.I suspect this has made me less sceptical and more trusting of the medical profession. I for one would have no hesitation having a Covid vaccine. I was, rather selfishly, hoping my cancer diagnosis would help me jump the queue (it hasn't). It would have been one of the few perks. 

Before lockdown an anti vaxxer sceptic asked if I'd take it. I said "Yes, tomorrow". When he started to spout all of the nonsense he'd seen on Youtube, I simply said "Look mate, I'm not going to try and convince you, but I took part in a medical trial that has allowed me to live with cancer perfectly well for the last five years and I'd be more than happy to trust a doctor if they said it was safe, because they are qualified to know, whereas you are a bloke who watches Youtube videos". If there was a jab that killed cancer and had passed a medical trial, I'd happily be the first in the queue. 

A year ago, none of us had a clue what covid was. I was looking forward to football, music, a holiday in the USA and my 15th wedding anniversary party in April. We all know how that went. When covid first emerged, we heard talk that there had never been a successful deployment of an RNA vaccine. We heard that money would be thrown at the problem. I thought it unlikely that we'd have one any time soon. Within a few months, the first trials were started. Now we hear that it is even more effective than expected. Not only that but we have a whole range to choose from, all of which work in a different way. 

It is amazing what human beings can do, when they have the will and the financial support. I am in awe of what researchers and the pharmacutical industry have done in such a small period. What is perhaps even more exciting is that having cracked this nut, there are plants springing up to manufacture vaccines across the globe. When covid is beaten, there will be huge capacity to produce other vaccines, that might just address many of the endemic problems of the third world. If this happens, we may well look back on 2020 as the year when humanity pulled together and actually addressed issues that they should have dealt with 50 years ago.

Another point worth considering is what this will do for cancer research. Cancer kills approx 9.5 million people a year across the globe. This dwarfs the number that covid will kill. Now we have proven as a race that we can, if we put our minds to it, beat seemingly invincible diseases, surely we should be turning our fire on cancer? Is a vaccine for cancer a feasable goal? I am not qualified to even speculate. From what I've read, the secret to beating cancer lies in understanding DNA. It does't seem to ridiculous to imagine a day when we all get a DNA test and get given a personalised drug that turns off the gene's that cause the cancers we are most susceptible to. What I do know is that this will only happen with political will and serious resources.  What we have done in 2020 has shown that we can climb these mountains.  That alone should give us all hope. 

Interestingly, on a slightly more personal note, there was a report in yesterdays Daily Express that seems to indicate there have been improvements to the HiFU procedure that I had in 2016. This is also good news.


When covid is done and dusted, we really should lobby for the resources thrown at covid to be made available to fight cancer, that not only kills far more people, but devastates peoples lives and costs governments billions to deal with. To me, it seems to be plain common sense.

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For those of you who are regular readers and have read the previous posts on Cancer, there's what this is all about. I write this blog because knowledge is power and if you know what you are dealing with, you have more weapons in the locker to fight it. It is a personal view, I'm not medically qualified. This is for the sole purpose of information for those who are interested.This is the latest installment in my occasional series about how I'm adjusting to living with a big C in my life.  For those of you who aren't, here's a quick summary. I'm 54years old and in October 2011 I  had a prostate biopsy following two "slightly high" PSA tests - 2.8 & 4.1. The biopsy took ten tissue samples and one of these showed a "low grade cancer" which gave me a 3+3 on the Gleason scale. I was put on a program of active monitoring.  In early February, I got the results of the a PSA test - down to 3.5 and an MRI scan which found absolutely nothing, two more tests in 2012 were at 3.5 and 3.9, in 2013 my test was 4.0, Jan 2014 was 3.8, August 2014 was 4.0,  February 2015 it was  up to 5.5  and my latest in August 2015 was down again at 4.6. In October 2015 I had a transperinial Prostate biopsy, that revealed higher grade cancer and my Gleason score was raised to 3+4 (Small mass + more aggressive cancer). On 22nd Jan 2016 I had HIFU (Hi Intensity Focused Ultrasound) treatment at UCHL). My post procedure PSA in May was 4.0 which was down, followed by 3.7 in August, and 3.5 in October  which means that the direction is positive . However in January the follow up MRI revealed "something unusual which requires investigation" After a follow up biopsy, it appeared this was nothing to worry about. My two most recent PSA tests were Ok (3.7 and 4.6) and an MRI scan in March was very positive. A  PSA in October 2019 was 4.6, so stable and good news, the last in May 2020 was 5.45 a small rise, so worrying, however after a review against the most recent MRI, it was decided that this was fine.

  I've no symptoms apart from needing to wee quite regularly and sadly for a few people, if I'm gonna die soon, it won't be from Prostate cancer. Got the picture? 

Wednesday, 3 February 2021

Theresa "Tessie" Fanning - A celebration of her life - By Rita Fanning and her family

 (Ed Note - Today marked the funeral of Theresa 'Tessie' Fanning. A much loved and missed member of the Barnet community, a long term resident of Mill Hill,  and later September Court and Leadbetters (care establishments run by Barnet Council). Tessie was well known to older members of the Sacred Heart community in Mill Hill and more recently around the Friern Barnet area where she lived. Sadly she recently succumbed to a covid infection. The family were keen to celebrate her life and share this beautiful eulogy, delivered by Rita Fanning and contributed to by her brothers and sisters, as many who would have normally attended the service were unable. We have also included the live Youtube broadcast of the service)

Theresa was a light of joy in our lives. As a youngster her love was absolute, her sense of fun infectious, and her energy a spark for our family. I was aged 11 when my sister was born. I loved my baby sister, who seemed to stay at the baby stage for a very long time. She was cuddly and smiley and had a very sweet nature, and sometimes showed a very endearing stubborn streak. She was adored by all. She was a very “special” child.

As the ninth child in a family of ten children she was patient, but also feisty, as she learned to stand her corner with her teasing brothers. Teasing was a way of including her in our family. Her names included Theresa Bernadette Anne, Esmerelda, Tessie, Tess, Tessa, Urs, Bun (short for Bernadette) Tesspot, Little Flower, My Darling, Cabbages and Albert. When the teasing got too much she could be heard saying ‘’Oh Gregory! Stop it! The teasing was all done with much love and affection. Mary would watch and would be amazed at Theresa’s patience.

Gregory said ‘When I think of Tessie, I see the little baby that pierced her father’s heart, with those beautiful smiling eyes and her cheeky little tongue. I spent the first 5 years of my life, every single day, with Tessie. As we grew up, she was my play mate. We played football in the garden; she honed my goalkeeping skills. We played board games together, we played boxing, we played wrestling.  Tessie was always ‘Big Daddy’ and I was ‘Giant Haystack’ I used to be the one who had to go and collect tea towels, hand towels and bath towels so Tessie could spend the afternoon ‘making beds’, giving our mum some much needed respite to watch a film.

Gregory continues, “As I went to school aged 5, Tessie started nursery, taking her nappy in her satchel. I will never hear the name ‘Flower Lane’ without thinking ‘Tessie’. She used to sit in the window seat at home waiting for the bus to come. Heaven help us if it was late! As for snow! Well, the air really turned blue!” Tessie had her first boyfriend Jonathan at Flower Lane school. Of course, she had many other “boyfriends” Cliff Richard, who came to Flower Lane and sang “Congratulations”, Father Corkery, Father Smythe, Father Jeremy and just about any priest. She would hug and tell each one ‘You are my ‘favourite’!

Yes, she was teased with fish bone and tomato skin pie, and songs like ‘there’s No business like ‘Snow Business’ or simply asking her if she wanted a ‘ham burglar?’ (she was frightened of burglars), she would just put her hand out in front of her face and say –' noooo!’ (Later she would use bad language that cannot be repeated in Church! However, that just added to her loveliness.)

She retained so much innocence as she grew up and was always sincere and authentic and was central to her family at home. Despite her special needs she had a strong sense of right and wrong. Being double jointed she could do the splits and often sat in the lotus position like a Buddha well into her 50’s. Her constitution was good and she outlived most of her peers. She learnt to write with the help of her teacher Miss Miller. Theresa was able to recognise her name and towards the end of her life enjoyed finding the letter ‘T’ for Tess.

 

Eventually she found her own life in community. She was well liked by carers and housemates alike.  We remember the happiness she knew at ‘New Fieldways’ where she met her boyfriend George and enjoyed a busy social life.

As she moved to ‘September Court’ and later to ‘Leadbeaters’ we were impressed by the devotion and affection of many of her carers - like Georgia and Michelle - who have happy memories of spending time with her - even as she started to fade.

Michelle said she was a delight to be with, Theresa often teased her, or helped organise what they were doing (usually a trip to a pub or for a meal). She remembers Theresa hugging her after nearly every dinner and saying ‘You’re the best cook’ and ‘this is my favourite’ – made all the more fun by knowing she said it to whoever had cooked that day!

Many people Loved Theresa. Mrs Morrisey, a lady in the parish, would have her to stay over weekends to give my parents a break. Her keyworker Georgia and her cousin Roger became surrogate family members. Georgia, as Theresa’s dementia worsened, would accompany Theresa to family parties and weddings. Roger took Theresa to Lourdes. He became her ‘Favourite cousin’!!

Theresa did not teach us directly, but we learned so much about life and people from her sunshine and her love of life. Good bye dear Theresa and thank you for everything, ‘Little Flower of the Morning’.  We look forward to seeing you again but for now be at peace with your Mum and Dad and brother in your heavenly home.

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Tuesday, 2 February 2021

Mr Reasonable takes aim at the wrong target in rant against local population

 Generally, I don't criticise my fellow bloggers, but I have to confess, a post by Mr Reasonable, AKA John Dix really got under my skin today. I like John and I hope he does not take this criticism personally, but I feel his comments on Twitter this morning were completely out of order. Let me explain. He posted the following comments on the Barnet Council budget consultation

There are several points I take issue with. First, he implies that 78 people responding to what is a very long, complicated and detailed document is not "no public opposition". As I've been working 80 hour weeks at the studio, as my staff are furloughed, I did not have the opportunity to do the job properly. It normally takes me three days to read all of the documents, papers etc, do the background research and put my response together. I could have spent half an hour and put some glib comments in, but that would simply be wasting everyones time. I am assuming that 78 people put that effort in and to dismiss their efforts as nothing is plain rude. I think that is not a bad response at all, especially given that many of us have other things on our minds in a pandemic. 

This year is probably the first year since 2009 that I have not gone through the budget and responded.  As I've often stated, this is a time consuming process. When Richard Cornelius lead the Tories locally he'd even have public meetings to discuss these. I wrote a blog of one such meeting that was well attended back in 2018.

Over the period of this blog, I've written blogs on the budget, written private emails to councillors, attended such meeetings. I doubt that in all of that period, the local Conservative adminstration have given one seconds serious thought to the suggestions I made. Now I know they consider me to be a trouble making moron, but unlike most of them, I've run a successful business, that I built myself from scratch for 41 years. I can read a balance sheet, I can collaborate with partners, I can add value. I will give one example. Back in 2010, when I set up the Save Barnet Libraries campaign,  I contacted the administration with a plan that would have negated the need for closures ( a plan they spent hundreds of thousands on then dumped when they realised the locals were turning against them). One item was to install solar panels on all our libraries. At the time, the govt was giving generous incentives, including a feed in tariff of 40p a unit. Had Barnet Council adopted this, they would now have over £3 million more in their coffers. Not only that, but it would have been good for the environment. I knew this, because we were putting solar energy in our new studio building complex. They didn't even bother responding to the suggestion, apart from a passing comment when I asked a meeting in council (when you still could) and was told "it is totally impractical". It is somewhat ironic that they now want to put solar panels up in our parks, even though all of the incentives have long gone. As an aside, I still support the concept of doing this for all public building.

When Mr Reasonable takes aim at locals, he is pointing his gun at the wrong target. There is a problem with local consultations. It is that you will spend hours working out responses, reasonable, well written and money saving, and they are totally ignored. The Barnet Tories changed the rules on asking questions at meetings, so it is impossible to ask a sensible set of questions about the budget. Questionairres are prescriptive, so you can only discuss the issues the council wish to discuss on the terms they want to discuss them in. I've more or less given up asking questions of the council as it is pointless. The rules simply encourage grandstanding, which is a waste of everyones time.

I've attended marches in Barnet with over 1,000 people in the snow, protesting about budget cuts. The reason these people are not responding is because Barnet Council and the Barnet Tories have made it quite clear that they would be wasting their time. It is not the fault of an apathetic population, it is the fault of an administration that has deliberately, over a long period, sought to exclude the public from proper, constructive engagement with the council. If you are a developer and want to spend bucks in Barnet, you have the ear of the council. If you are a resident, they don't want to know. 

As I said, I like Mr Reasonable, but he has done two very dangerous things in this tweet. The first is that he has given the council permission to ignore any responses they did get. The second and far worse thing is that he's set a narrative that this lack of engagement is the fault of the people of Barnet rather than the administration that has coolly and in a calculating fashion worked so hard to discourage engagement.

Monday, 1 February 2021

Standing up for our music scene - A guest blog by Luisa Porritt

 With the problems encountered by Musicians in relation to gigging and working in the EU, we contacted Luisa Porritt, the Liberal Democrat candidate for Mayor of London in the May elections to state her position. Luisa has agreed that this is an important issue and made this a part of her address. This is what she told us.


With the cancellation of live events due to Covid-19, it’s been a tough year for musicians. And the Brexit deal is set to make it tougher for them to share their music across Europe, at a time when we should be looking forward to hearing them play again once everyone has been safely vaccinated.


Expensive visas and endless paperwork for live performers and their equipment is making the prospect of touring unviable - musicians' main source of income. I will fight for paperwork-free tours.


London’s Mayor should be an ambassador for our city, its people, values and priorities. I will use the relationships I've built as an MEP and beyond to protect London’s future as a European city.


As Mayor, I’ll always be a champion for London having the closest possible relationship with the EU, and an advocate for future membership.

Hope you and your loved ones are safe and well.

Luisa Porritt
Liberal Democrat Candidate for Mayor of London

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So how psychic am I? One month in, my 2021 predictions review!

 

For a bit of fun at the start of the year, I laid out a set of predictions for every month of the year. As there isn't much on telly and not much to report, I thought it might be fun to do a monthly review and score my predictions out of ten. So how did I do for January?

So here they are. My comment and score out of 10 for accuracy is in red italics

We will shortly see the beginning of the roll out of the Astra Zeneca vaccine. Many of us are pinning our hopes of a return to normality on this. I predict that the ramp up of the vaccination program will initially be a fiasco with questions in the house. Given the governments inability to organise anything, I don't really think you need to be Mystic Meg to predict this.

Well a complete failure of my Mystic Meg powers here and very pleased I am to admit I called this one totally wrong. We seem to be rather good at rolling out vaccinations - Mystic Meg rating 0/10

We will also see the inauguration of President Joe Biden. I predict that Donald Trump will not go gracefully and we will not have heard the last of him when he walks out of the White House. Trump grants whistleblower Edward Snowden and Julian Asange a Presidential pardon on his last day of office. 

Well, I couldn't have been more spot on about Trump not going quietly. An insurrection and storming of the Capitol Building was beyond even my expectations. I was wrong about Snowden and Assange, although Trump did do a whole swathe of rather dodgy looking pardons. Mystic Meg rating 7/10

I predict that Republicans in the Senate and the House of Representatives will initially rally around Joe Biden, to show that they do care about the National interest, in a bid to beat Coronavirus and stop the economy tanking completely. I suspect Biden will have a very good first hundred days, with Donald Trump claiming it is all really down to him.

It seems to me that the this is spot on. It is hard to know what Trump is saying because he's been de-platformed. It seemed to me that the US Political establishment breathed a collective sigh of relief when Trump left. It seems quite strange that having been all over the news constantly for four years, Trump has disappeared without trace. I am not entirely sure that this is a good thing for an open and tolerant society that believes in Free Speech, although on a personal level I am pleased to see the back of him.  Mystic Meg rating 9/10 

I also predict that by the end of January, we start to see far less complimentary headlines for Boris in the Daily Express and Mail, as the true nature of what he's negotiated becomes clear. I suspect that we will see Farage claiming that the chaos is all because Boris betrayed Brexit and stitched us all up and that the chaos is down to not having a hard Brexit. I suspect that facts will not support this.

A week ago, this looked like I'd got it spot on.The revealation that Priti Patel had lobbied for border controls and Boris overruled her, looked like the start of this process. The row with the EU over vaccines has given the right wing press to claim that 'Boris played a blinder' and the EU is a failing organisation', has conveniently distracted us from this. The sad fact that we have the highest death rate of any nation is conveniently ignored. I suspect that the reason we are doing so well is because we are the country in the biggest mess because of covid. Although right now it looks like I got this one wrong, I suspect that it is just coming down the line.  Mystic Meg rating 5/10

 So my final score for January was a not too amazing 21/40.

 As for February, here are my predictions


February

1. By the end of February, we should see the fruits of the vaccination program starting to take hold, with a gradual easing back of restrictions. A return of crowds to football and us all to pubs and restaurants, albeit in limited numbers will be more than welcome. The national mood will start to improve. 

2. The papers will start to fill with stories of how Brexit is ruining businesses, problems for ex pats and stunted financial growth. I predict that President Macron will take great delight in whatever pain the UK suffers. 

3. I predict that Irish reunification will start to be seriously discussed as the DUP wake up to the fact that Great Britain has sold them down the river. 

4. As the Covid crisis improves, the SNP will step up pressure for a referendum to leave the UK. 

5. Within the Tory party, serious mutterings about the suitability of Boris as PM will start to emerge. When all the heavy lifting has been done with Covid and Brexit, the ambitious chancers will see the opportunity to steal the crown. 

It will be interesting and fun to see how I get on.  It is interesting to see that point 3 has already started with the EU's threat to impose a hard border, which was hastily withdrawn.